Postpartum depression: when the mind is coming apart

While the baby blues, which is often associated with postpartum hormonal shifts, is rather common after birth, postpartum depression affects up to 20% of new mothers, the WHO reports. How to explain such phenomenon? What are the signs to watch for? How to cope? We asked Manon Luigi Monty, a Clinical Psychologist.

After experiencing hormonal upheaval and symbiosis with baby for nine months, it is completely normal to feel somewhat confused and even depressed. With fatigue and hormonal drop not helping, we even talk about a feeling of emptiness, which can last a few days or weeks: this is the famously called ‘baby blues’. Irritability, anxiety, vulnerability, sudden mood change, sadness… The symptoms are multiple, but clear up rather quickly.

‘Postpartum depression, however, appears as a real depressive syndrome. There are more symptoms and these are much more severe,’ explains Manon. Frequent unexplained tears, irritability, suicidal thoughts, severe anxiety, exhaustion, apathy, self-depreciation and incapacity to enter the parent role… Unlike the baby blues, such symptoms persist in time and require an actual treatment. Also keep in mind that postpartum depression does not only affect women! Up to 20% of new fathers are said to be also concerned.

Though it is difficult to determine the causes of postpartum depression with certainty, there are many factors, which can contribute to the outset of the disease. They are physical, hormonal, social, emotional, or psychological factors… ‘The arrival of a first child can cause great interior upheavals: an important identity change, grieving processes – of the former lifestyle, of the ideal child, of an idealized form of maternity,’ Manon continues. After a difficult delivery, some mothers may even suffer from post-traumatic stress.

Can one be prepared to it? According to the psychologist, a pre-childbirth follow-up would be necessary for such mothers, who have been feeling insecure since the beginning of their pregnancy, or have already suffered from depression or anxiety before or during pregnancy. Other risk factors, such as breastfeeding difficulty, low self-esteem, marital problems or previous trauma, should also be taken into account. ‘If the postpartum depression is not treated in a timely manner, it may cause father and mother alike, and also the child to suffer, as attachment disorders may develop between child and parent and impair the child’s cognitive, emotional and social development,’ says Manon.

As of the onset of symptoms, a whole process is to be put in place. Psychological counselling will help patients work on their distress and self-image in the aftermath of such an upsetting experience, and wherever appropriate, drug therapy may be used where there is a suicide risk. ‘In absence of psychotherapeutic support, the symptoms caused by the traumas will become incapacitating on a daily basis,’ the psychologist adds. One should not turn in on oneself, but talk about it openly.

If someone seems to present such symptoms in your circle, the first thing to do is to offer support, love, and listen. ‘Such an event must be interpreted as a reminder for the mother to take care of herself, both physically and psychologically. Suffering from postpartum depression does not make you a bad parent. Everyone may need some help sometimes,’ concludes Manon.

If you think you are suffering from postpartum depression, we have a whole team of professionals ready to help you get over it. Do not hesitate to contact them on 401 95 00 or to make an appointment with Manon Luigi Monty on 5 258 44 66.

All about the seasonal flu vaccine

Temperatures have started to drop and evenings are turning milder. Winter is beginning to show its face, no doubt about it! With it comes the onset of seasonal flu, which can be prepared for with the vaccines offered by the Clinic. Who are they for? When to get vaccinated? Dr Veeraragoo, a specialist in internal medicine, gives us more information.

 

What is seasonal flu?

The seasonal influenza virus belongs to the Orthomyxoviridae family. These viruses occur every year, mainly in winter, and affect all populations worldwide. They are unique in that they mutate continuously, which means that they are constantly changing and are never the same every year. While the symptoms may vary from person to person, some are quite common and are found in most infected people, such as headache, fever, runny nose, myalgia, weakness, and sometimes nausea and vomiting. Flu is mostly harmless, but can lead to serious consequences, including hospitalisation or even death, in at-risk populations.

 

Who is eligible for the vaccine?

The vaccine is not compulsory but is strongly recommended, especially for particular risk profiles. One of the target groups are elderly people as they are more likely to develop serious complications after being infected. Secondly, we also advise children between 6 months and 2 years of age to be vaccinated. As their immune systems are still immature, they tend to develop more intense forms of flu. Thirdly, people with chronic diseases such as diabetes, asthma or certain heart diseases are strongly encouraged to receive the vaccine. Finally, pregnant women may also be at risk, as influenza can lead to complications such as miscarriage and premature delivery.

 

When is the best time for a vaccination?

As seasonal flu tends to occur in winter, it is advisable to get the vaccine before the weather turns cold. The ideal time would therefore be between February and March, but the vaccine will still be effective regardless of when it is given, as it protects the patient for 6 to 8 months. It should then be repeated every year at the same period.

 

How does it work?

The two vaccines offered at the Clinic, Influvac and Vaxigrip, are composed of inactivated viruses. This means that once injected, the virus cannot multiply in the body’s cells and cause flu. In other words, it wakes up the immune system and builds a response to future attacks. If the immune defence is actually activated, the person is fully ready to neutralise the real virus before it can do too much damage. As these viruses change every year, vaccines are continually updated according to the strains in circulation. The Vaxigrip vaccine, for example, is a tetravalent vaccine and prepares the immune system against four different subtypes of influenza A and B currently in circulation.

 

Does the vaccine cause side effects?

The flu vaccine has been used for almost 60 years! It has been extensively studied and is therefore safe. However, it is possible to experience flu-like symptoms such as fatigue, nausea, runny nose, fever or loss of appetite within 48 hours of the injection. However, these symptoms are less severe. In very rare cases, a person may be unknowingly allergic to one of the components of the vaccine. This can lead to an allergic reaction of varying severity.

 

How effective is the flu vaccine?

The effectiveness of the vaccine depends on many factors: the health of the person, their age, but also the type of virus currently in circulation. As a general rule, the vaccine is 40-60% effective. This means that you can still get the flu, but your system’s immune response will be much faster because the body recognises the virus straight away. The virus, since it is already known to our immune system, will not proliferate, thus hindering contamination, which is usually through the airways. In addition, the vaccine remains effective against the strains that make it up. It is therefore possible for a person to be infected with a subtype not provided by the vaccine.

 

What are the necessary formalities for obtaining a vaccine?

At the Clinic, you will need a prescription from a general practitioner or other doctor before you can be vaccinated. The pharmacy will then deliver the prescribed vaccine to the patient. Medical advice is also required before the injection, as it is not recommended to be vaccinated if you have a fever, for example.

 

Besides vaccination, what are your recommendations for coping with winter and seasonal flu?

In order to limit the risk of contamination, especially for symptomatic cases, we would advise implementing the same precautions recommended since the advent of the pandemic: wearing a mask, frequent hand washing, social distancing, use of hydroalcoholic gel, etc. Furthermore, a healthy diet, made up of fresh fruits and vegetables and balanced meals, also ensures optimal immunity. It is equally advisable to exercise, as it oxygenates our system and boosts our immunity and mental health. Finally, if we suffer from comorbidities, we should do all the necessary check-ups. Uncontrolled blood sugar levels in a diabetic suffering from flu can lead to serious complications. It is therefore wise to listen to your body and, above all, to take care of it.

For more information, do not hesitate to contact our pharmacy on 401 95 00.

 

Getting ready for baby’s arrival: the added value of our midwives

Couples awaiting the arrival of a new baby, especially the first one, are often a bit lost when it comes to dealing with the pregnancy, and practical details around the arrival of the infant: how to go about before, during and after childbirth, without being overwhelmed by the whole new situation. So, let’s shed light on services offered by these women (and men) who are there to help giving life!

Midwives: those who help manage the difficulties around pregnancy, the preparation for childbirth, and the arrival and development of the infant. Taking care of the woman before, during and after childbirth, in a nutshell.

For couples opting for private follow-up and delivery, the midwife option is not always available. Thus, several couples do not have the necessary information concerning this body of work. For Nathalie Templin, midwife at Clinique Bon Pasteur, the role of the midwife is to facilitate the whole process around childbirth for the parents-to-be.

“Young couples, especially those with little experience, have the opportunity, through midwifery courses, to prepare themselves psychologically and practically upon the arrival of the infant. These classes are taught at Clinique Bon Pasteur in 4 sessions before delivery”. The mothers-to-be have practical advice on various topics: breathing and relaxation techniques and exercises for the delivery stage, or details about breastfeeding. The delivery process, and the post-delivery stage are covered during the last two sessions, and are also opened to partners because a topic covered among others, is dad’s role. There are also practical exercises on how to bathe the infant, etc. It should be noted that these courses are also opened to those who decide to give birth in other institutions.

And there’s more to come! New parents can also benefit from a last session after childbirth, and this is about the child’s development from day one, up to a year. This course, delivered by an infant care professional, Nadine Fanchette, is opened to couples.
So, anyone looking for additional information on the matter is encouraged to call Clinique Bon Pasteur and ask for Nathalie or Rozie at the maternity clinic.

Bon Pasteur pharmacy: combining the useful with the pleasant

Clinique Bon Pasteur: When modernity blends perfectly with a welcoming family atmosphere

Keeping the philosophy of the Sisters of the Bon et Perpetuel Secours who managed the Clinique Bon Pasteur during the last century, while bringing a touch of modernity, is the challenge that Dr. François Tadebois, director of the clinic, has accepted to take up. Thus, in his eyes, the establishment remains a family clinic, even if the infrastructure has seen significant improvements over the years, and even if there is still a long way to go…

Many might not know it, but the Clinique Bon Pasteur is the oldest private clinic in the country! Founded in 1932, it belonged to the congregation of the Bon et Perpetuel Secours. A beautiful picture of the Sisters smiling in front of the original building is hanging at the reception of the clinic today, as a reminder of these memories from the last century. The diocese took over until the clinic was sold in 1997.

It is said that the older the violin, the sweeter the music! Then, the rich history of the Clinique Bon Pasteur is the foundation that has inspired the philosophy dictating the clinic’s dynamics today. As Dr. Tadebois, director of the Clinique Bon Pasteur explains, the very philosophy of the clinic’s services today is imbued with the vision that the Sisters of the Bon et Perpetuel Secours developed back then.

“We bought the clinic from the diocese in 1997. Our goal since then, has been to perpetuate, through our services, the values developed since the clinic’s establishment: being a small family clinic, where people are comfortable and where a relationship of trust is established between the care provider and the patient”. These values remain, even if the new leadership of the clinic has gradually included a modern twist to it.

Thus, since 1997, a gradual enhancement has been seen: the working conditions of the staff have been improved, as well as the infrastructures and the medical services. For example, ophthalmic services are of a very good standard, as well as maternity services, or abdominal surgery. The operating theatre has also been significantly enhanced and is a center of excellence for cataract treatments, orthopedic surgery and other treatments. Radiology services have also been developed.

And the clinic’s progress will not stop there, because Dr. Tadebois has got loads of future projects: “We want to add services, review the consultations functioning, and further improve the operating theatre, in view of being equipped in terms of high medical technology”.
However, despite this vision regarding the development of the clinic, Dr. Tadebois remains very down to earth. The clinic keeps its hospitality and family atmosphere, and will always do. They thus do not have any plans of becoming an ultra-sophisticated structure where this basic philosophy will gradually vanish. “We are not here to rip off our patients, but to offer quality services, while preserving the family atmosphere and hospitality, that is felt as soon as someone walks through the door of the clinic’s reception».

And as a matter of fact, on this black and white picture at the reception, the Sisters witness this warm welcome every day, as a testimony that their philosophy has survived the test of time. Almost a century later, patients are still welcome with this sweet hospitality, enhanced by a high level of service. Today, they are thus always confident that their health are in good hands at Clinique Bon Pasteur.

Le Covid-19 : 10 précautions de base

Le Coronavirus : Quels sont les symptômes ??

Les Coronavirus (CoV) englobent toute une famille de virus qui s’étend, provoquant ainsi toute une gamme de maladies, allant du simple rhume, jusqu’à certains syndromes respiratoires plus aigus. Dans le cas du Covid-19, les signes et symptômes rapportés incluent fièvre, fatigue et toux sèche. Certains peuvent développer douleurs, écoulement ou congestion nasale, maux de gorge ou diarrhées. Bien que ces symptômes apparaissent progressivement, certains peuvent ne présenter aucun symptôme même s’ils sont infectés, et peuvent ainsi, sans le savoir, transmettre le virus à autrui. Même si une personne sur 6 présentera des symptômes assez graves, les personnes les plus à risques sont les personnes âgées et celles qui ont d’autres problèmes de santé (hypertension artérielle, problèmes cardiaques ou diabète).

 

Il est primordial de prendre des précautions de base :

 

Les précautions à prendre

  1. Lavez-vous régulièrement les mains avec de l’eau et du savon (ou une solution hydro alcoolique) afin de tuer le virus s’il est présent sur vos mains.
  2. Couvrez-vous la bouche et le nez en cas de toux ou d’éternuement avec le pli du coude ou avec un mouchoir (et jetez le mouchoir immédiatement après dans une poubelle fermée et lavez-vous les mains) afin d’éviter la propagation des virus.
  3. Evitez de vous toucher les yeux, le nez ou la bouche car les mains peuvent être en contact avec des surfaces où le virus est présent, et en touchant ces parties de votre visage, vous pouvez être infecté par le virus.
  4. Maintenez, autant que possible, une distance d’au moins 1 mètre avec les autres personnes, en particulier si elles toussent, éternuent ou ont de la fièvre, car ce faisant, elles projettent de petites gouttelettes contenant le virus. Si vous êtes trop près, vous pouvez ainsi inhaler le virus.
  5. Evitez de vous serrer les mains, de même que les embrassades, car ces simples geste peuvent causer une transmission du virus. Préférez plutôt un signe de la tête ou de la main.
  6. Utilisez un masque seulement si vous présentez des symptômes du Covid-19, ou si vous êtes en contact direct avec quelqu’un qui présente des symptômes. Les masques étant en pénurie déjà dans plusieurs pharmacies chez nous, il serait plus juste de les laisser à la disposition de ceux qui présentent des symptômes, et qui sont plus susceptibles de transmettre le virus.
  7. Soyez conscients que les gants en caoutchouc ne préviennent pas la transmission du virus, car si le virus se trouve sur les gants, se toucher le visage peut entrainer un risque de contamination.
  8. Si quelqu’un qui présente des symptômes vous a rendu visite, nettoyez les surfaces avec un désinfectant ordinaire, évitez de vous toucher le visage, et lavez-vous les mains. En fonction des surfaces, de l’humidité, de la température, etc, le virus peut y vivre quelques heures à plusieurs jours. Il est à noter que certaines personnes peuvent être porteuses du virus sans présenter de symptômes, et il est ainsi recommandé de nettoyer régulièrement votre maison.
  9. Suivez les directives des autorités. Lorsqu’un confinement est décrété, ne sortez qu’en cas de nécessité extrême, et suivez les précautions de base afin de vous protéger du Covid-19. Cela est d’autant plus important si vous avez chez vous des personnes âgées ou vulnérables, à qui vous pourriez ainsi transmettre le virus sans même en être conscient.
  10. Si vous présentez des symptômes du Covid-19, appelez le 8924.

 

Où obtenir des informations fiables ?

Le nombre d’informations inexactes et surtout alarmistes qui ont été publiées dans certains médias et sur les réseaux sociaux peuvent donner inutilement lieu à une panique générale. Il est donc conseillé de se renseigner sur le site internet et les réseaux sociaux de l’Organisation Mondiale de la Santé comme Facebook, ou Twitter. Le site du Ministère de la santé et du bien-être prévu à cet effet publie aussi des informations utiles, mises à jour régulièrement.

 

Rappelons-nous que nous avons une responsabilité envers la société, nos proches et nous-mêmes.  Prenons les précautions nécessaires et respectons les consignes du Gouvernement.  Ainsi nous contribuons à la protection de nos proches, de nos concitoyens et de nous-mêmes.

Article rédigé par Nathalie Rose ; Source : World Health Organisation (WHO)

Le rôle de parent durant le confinement et le déconfinement

 

Prendre soin de soi : petits conseils de l’OMS

  • Vous êtes anxieux, mais vous n’êtes pas le seul. Confiez-vous à quelqu’un, et évitez le trop plein de réseaux sociaux, qui peuvent augmenter voter stress.
  • Lorsque vous avez un peu de temps pour vous, par exemple lorsque vos enfants sont au lit, faites quelque chose de relaxant ou d’amusant, comme une liste de choses que vous aimeriez faire aussitôt que le confinement sera levé !
  • Prenez quelques minutes pour une relaxation : asseyez-vous confortablement, fermez les yeux et analysez vos pensées, vos sensations physiques et émotionnelles : sont-elles plutôt positives ou négatives ? Écoutez votre souffle lorsque vous inspirez ou expirez, et relativisez en vous disant que vous allez bien. Concentrez-vous sur votre respiration encore quelques instants, et lorsque vous vous sentez prêts, ouvrez les yeux à nouveau.
  • Si vous n’êtes pas dans une situation où vous pouvez faire une relaxation, le fait de prendre quelques respirations profondes peut vous aider à vous détendre.

 

De plus, avec le déconfinement, vos enfants seront amenés à graduellement reprendre contact avec le monde extérieur. Les jeunes sont sans doute impatients, mais certains peuvent avoir une certaine angoisse à être en contact avec le Covid-19. Selon l’OMS, il est important de pouvoir parler ouvertement et rassurer ses enfants au sujet du Covid-19

 

Préparez vos enfants au déconfinement : Quelques conseils.

  • Engagez la conversation avec eux, écoutez les lorsqu’ils s’expriment au sujet de la maladie et de leurs éventuelles angoisses.
  • Evaluez leurs connaissances, recadrez-les au besoin et répondez à leurs questions en toute franchise.
  • Rassurez-les s’ils sont angoissés
  • Expliquez-leur qu’on peut avoir de l’empathie pour les personnes qui ont été malades à cause du Covid, et qu’il ne faut pas avoir peur d’elles si les médecins ont dit qu’elles étaient guéries.
  • Racontez-leur des histoires au sujet de la bravoure du personnel médical qui les ont soignés.
  • Rappelez-leur qu’il y a énormément d’intox qui circulent au sujet du Covid, et que les informations de l’OMS et de l’UNICEF sont des sources d’information fiables.

 

L’équipe de la clinique du Bon Pasteur vous souhaite donc du courage pour cette fin de confinement et pour la reprise. Et si ces dernières semaines ont été particulièrement dures pour vous ou vos enfants, et que vous aimeriez un soutien professionnel pour vous aider à mieux gérer cette situation après le déconfinement, n’hésitez pas à appeler la clinique au 401-9500 afin de prendre un rendez-vous avec nos psychologues.

Article rédigé par Nathalie Rose ; Source : World Health Organisation (WHO)

Déconfinement : rassurer et protéger vos enfants

Voici quelques conseils de Julien Quenette, Docteur en psychologie du développement et consultant à la Clinique Bon Pasteur, pour vous aider à rassurer et à protéger vos enfants

 

  1. Être reconnaissant envers nos enfants et pourquoi pas les féliciter d’avoir si bien respecté les règles du confinement bien que les conditions aient été compliquées.

Nous devons reconnaître tous les efforts faits par la famille pendant ce temps de confinement.

En tant qu’adulte ces nouvelles dispositions ont été très difficiles à accepter et pas évidentes à tenir au quotidien. Pour les enfants, ces nouvelles routines ont été tout aussi difficile à adhérer. En les félicitant vous encouragez leur sentiment d’appartenance et vous renforcez leur confiance en soi. Dans la même dynamique vous pouvez leur donner de nouvelles responsabilités pour les deux mois à venir afin de vous aider à la maison pendant que vous êtes au travail.

 

  1. Prendre un temps pour écouter et accepter le ressenti de vos enfants

Il va être d’autant plus difficile pour les enfants d’accepter et de continuer à rester enfermé pendant encore deux mois. Interrogez vos enfants sur ce qu’ils ressentent à ce sujet. Dites-leur que c’est tout à fait normal de ressentir cette colère, cette injustice ou cette inquiétude car oui ils se sentiront aussi inquiets pour leurs parents qui vont se retrouver exposés au virus. Utilisez des mots adaptés à l’âge de l’enfant et pour les plus petits, des activités telles que le dessin ou des histoires permettent d’aborder ces sujets de façon ludique. Il ne faut surtout pas minimiser l’impact que pourrait avoir cette nouvelle situation et sur ce que ressent votre enfant. Vous pouvez planifier des temps de paroles en famille à la fin de chaque journée pour faire le point avec vos enfants, les rassurer sur la journée que vous avez passée dehors et prévoir ce que vous ferez demain.

 

  1. Gardez une bonne organisation des journées pour vos enfants

Être enfermé depuis 2 mois a amené les familles à se réorganiser, à planifier chaque journée, à mettre en place des routines précises et à prendre du temps pour s’écouter. Pour certains cela a été plus difficile que pour d’autres mais il ne faut en aucun cas que cette dynamique change avec le déconfinement. L’enfant a besoin d’un cadre sécurisant et bienveillant. Malgré les changements qui vont survenir à partir du 1er juin, il est recommandé de garder les mêmes routines en essayant de s’adapter au mieux. Certains enfants seront amenés à rester chez leurs grands-parents ou alors sous la surveillance d’un autre adulte, et il est important qu’ils/elles puissent s’appuyer sur une organisation et des règles qui auront été définies ensembles. Penser à impliquer vos enfants dans les décisions et l’organisation permet de renforcer le sentiment d’appartenance et d’encourager la coopération au sein de la famille.

Inspirations 

Winter and under the weather

Symptoms

Every year, we witness a surge of seasonal flu cases in winter. According to the World Health Organization, symptoms can range from a sudden onset of fever, a cough, a runny nose, various pains like migraines, muscle, or joint pain and a sore throat. Most people with seasonal flu will recover within a week without requiring medical treatment. It can however get worse, even resulting in death.

Transmission

Transmission can happen via respiratory droplets or by direct contact. However, we all have varying levels of vulnerability towards the virus, and the people being more at risks are: pregnant women, people over 65, children aged 6 months to 5 years old, people with chronic medical conditions, and medical staff.

Prevention

The best prevention against seasonal flu is the vaccine, according to Dr. Roland Donat, respiratory diseases specialist. “The vaccine might not be a 100% protective measure, but the more we get it, the more protected we are”. Effective seasonal flu vaccines have been around for over 60 years. Done on a yearly basis, the vaccine can prove to be very effective as a means of prevention in healthy adults. On the other hand, if it is less effective in preventing the flu among our elders, it will help in reducing flu-related health complications, in particular death among the elderly population. Although the vaccine is recommended for everyone, it is especially important for people more vulnerable to seasonal flu, as well as for people living with looking after people at high risk. It is to be noted, however, that having a healthy lifestyle and working out is an effective way of protecting oneself from illnesses in general.

 

With winter just around the corner, the best way to deal with seasonal flu is to see a doctor if symptoms are persistent, and / or to be vaccinated. Thus, feel free to get in touch with Bon Pasteur Clinic on 401 9500, where Dr Donat meets with patients every Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday from 9.00 to noon.

Post-Confinement: How to manage one’s stress as parent when kids are back to School

Some parents are worried! It should be noted, however, that this anxiety does not particularly come from the fact that their kids might be exposed to COVID-19. Indeed, in response to questions related to that, several parents admit that they are not worried, as of now, of COVID-19, but acknowledge that they will be when our borders will re-open, or if there is a second COVID 19 wave in Mauritius.

But we’re not there yet! Indeed, several parents with young children admit that the source of their anxiety is rather about the idea of being separated from their toddlers, with whom they have developed a very strong attachment during lockdown. Estelle, a young mother, relates: “When leaving my son at the nursery, I thought he would have been torn apart, but he was happy to be surrounded by young kids of his age. I quickly realised that I was the one being torn apart, and that I had to take care of myself! »

Julien Quenette, Doctor in developmental psychology and consultant at Bon Pasteur Clinic, acknowledges this. “Preparing children adequately is, above all, preparing parents adequately. As the French paediatrician and psychoanalyst Françoise Dolto said, if you want children to be well educated, start by treating the parents”.

But how can we put this into practice in the case of toddlers getting out of lockdown? As the psychologist explains, “one has to be able to let go and keep in mind that a child needs to be with other young children for his personal development. But above all, we must be able to talk to our children about how we feel, and use this situation to practice putting words on our emotions in family, and start doing this when kids are still very young. This is not about transferring our stress to our little ones, but talking about it. As a matter of fact, not talking about it also conveys emotions, and this can indirectly affect kids even more. ”

So, if a parent is stressed or even anxious about having to be separated from his/her young child when classes resume, it is a great opportunity to sit with the family and share this emotion. “In our society, we are afraid to talk about how we feel, and about what can be perceived as a sign of weakness. However, when we talk about it, children are encouraged to voice out their feelings and emotions that can be perceived as a weakness. In addition, this is a fantastic way of developing the emotional intelligence of our little ones: putting into words one’s own emotions and feelings so as to better manage these.”

COVID-19’s related anxiety might be back when the country re-opens its borders, and we must be able to prepare our children accordingly. “It is precisely through dialogue with our children that we can better prepare them and better prepare ourselves for this situation. But it is important to be able to be honest with our children, from an early age. And if this attachment bond has allowed some families to refocus on themselves during lockdown, it is now appropriate, as confinement is gradually coming to an end, to be able to cultivate this bond by keeping moments for the family. ”

Capture our emotions into words. With our kids. That’s the key…